Jesus never told His disciples He would someday be their bride. Paul didn’t say we are the bride. In fact nowhere in scriptures does it ever say Christians are the bride of Christ. Not only that, it just seems strange.

CAN’T IGNORE IT

I don’t believe we can ignore the marriage comparison of our relationship to God in the covenants, promises or vows made to each other. The word does make those comparisons. I don’t refute that. God has made a lot of promises to us just like we make promises to each other when we get married. But as far as my personal relationship with God? I am a friend of God, He is my dad and I am His son too. “…whereby we cry abba (literally: “daddy”), father”. Our closeness and intimacy with Him, is like a dad and not like that of a spouse. He is a dad who has promised me an inheritance and the ability to come boldy to His throne of grace.

PREACHERS AREN’T ALWAYS RIGHT

Just because somebody in the pulpit says it, that doesn’t make it true. We need to find out what the word says about anything being taught. It is important to take the word at face value and not assume the is some sort of hidden meaning in the scriptures unless it says it is a parable you are about to read. Such as when Jesus said He was telling a parable. If that is what Jesus did then we can expect that is what God did when He inspired the Bible’s writers. Even in this article, check out for yourself what I am talking about here. That’ll keep you from drinking the “cool-aid”.

NO SUCH THING AS THE TERM “BRIDE OF CHRIST” IN THE BIBLE

We can find a “Lambs’ Wife” but no “Bride of Christ”. I searched the Bible for the term “bride of Christ”. I couldn’t find it. It suprised me when I did that search and came up with no results! And to think, after all these years of hearing how we are the bride of Christ and He will come get us once we have made ourselves ready. Yeah well, I never believed it!

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT THE “BRIDE OF CHRIST”?

What does the word say about the “bride of Christ”? Not much. The term “bride of Christ” is nowhere in the Bible. Aside from being first coined by the Roman Catholic Church, this term has been invented out of perceived inferences of certain passages that says God’s relationship to us is “as a bride”. It doesn’t read “the church is the bride”. These passages are all similes. They are simply making a comparison of our relationship to Him as far as how much he loves us and how great a priority we are to Him as well as His covenant promises to us.

NOTICE THE TERM “BRIDE OF CHRIST” IS NOT USED

“And there came unto me one of the seven angels which had the seven vials full of the seven last plagues, and talked with me, saying, Come hither, I will shew thee the bride, the Lamb’s wife. And he carried me away in the spirit to a great and high mountain, and shewed me that great city, the holy Jerusalem, descending out of heaven from God, Having the glory of God: and her light was like unto a stone most precious, even like a jasper stone, clear as crystal; And had a wall great and high, and had twelve gates, and at the gates twelve angels, and names written thereon, which are the names of the twelve tribes of the children of Israel:..” Rev. 21:9-12

This passage does not say the body of Christ is the the Lamb’s wife. It does not say Israel is the Lamb’s wife. It clearly states however that “that great city, the holy Jerusalem” is the Lamb’s wife. In verse 1 it also says that John the Revelator saw that great city descending down from heaven adorned as a bride. He doesn’t even refer to it as the bride but that it is adorned as a bride.

WHY DO WE ALWAYS READ THINGS INTO THE WORD?

So, how did some miss that passage and turn the church or even Israel into the “bride of Christ”? Israel makes more sense but still I’m not sure why people draw conclusions like these without clear evidence. My guess is it has something to do with trying to figure out the marriage supper of the Lamb. As humans I think we tend to want to understand everything so we just read stuff into things that aren’t really there in order to make some sort of sense out of it.

WHAT THE “Bride of Christ” DOCTRINE TEACHES

The “bride of Christ” doctrine tells us once we “stand up and have all the wrinkles out of our wedding dress” then we will be ready (that comes from the scripture that says “..once the bride hath made herself ready…”). It tells us the Lord will return and get us once we “make ourselves ready”, are without “spot or blemish” and when the church is perfect and ready. I must have heard that come from the pulpit a hundred times. Nothing can be further from the truth.

WHAT THIS MEANS AND WHY IT IS IMPORTANT

This means the body of Christ has to do something be perfect and to make “herself ready” first. If this is true then there is absolutely no way Jesus will ever return and get us. We cannot get “ready” ourselves out of our own doing something to be perfect. It’ll never happen. We are not perfect and we can never be perfect outside of his gift of righteousness. It is just not possible. It will never be possible!

BEING READY IS A GIFT

You see, being perfect is a gift and it is a gift we already have. Sorry, but the last time I read 2 Cor. 5:21, Romans 3:26, 1 Cor 1:30, and 2 Cor 9:10 it says we have been made the righteousness of God already. We are already without “spot or blemish”. We are already perfect and righteous. Jesus can return now if God tells Him to. He can return at anytime. More importantly is the fact that if we are made righteous through the blood of Jesus then it takes away from us “the works” that we will have to do to become perfect. It makes it all about grace again and not something we do on our own. It makes it all about his ability to save us and His ability working in us to give us the power to overcome sin in our own lives. This is the fundamental reason Jesus gave His life for us. “The bride” teaching removes the fundamental purpose in the plan of salvation. Our salvation becomes about works and about making ourselves perfect and ready. Grace is denied. Its by grace we are saved and it will be by grace that He will return and get His church. (Eph. 2).

RIGHTEOUSNESS IS THE PURPOSE OF GOD’S PLAN FOR MAN

The entire purpose of God in sending His son as a sacrifice for the sins of the world was to give us His righteousness. He came to make us righteous. Without His righteousness we cannot be in his presence and have a personal relationship with Him right now. Do we understand the depth and magnitude of being made righteous? We have been made righteous! Righteousness is the primary work of the New Birth. We are already righteous and perfect and without spot or blemish as far as God is concerned. We don’t have to do a thing to become perfect. We already are. His grace working in us is what makes us worthy and deserving of all God has for us. My righteousness is “as filthy rags”. Whatever good things I do are still not good enough. Why? because, as Paul said, …sin is waring in my members”. That means my own good works are still tainted. But on the otherhand, you see, once I have received “the abundance of grace”, through faith, I become righteous with God’s perfect, glorious and bright shining righteousness. That is the righteousness that holy Jerusalem’s (the lamb’s wife) garment is made of. So, now then, Jesus can return any time now and get us. We don’t have to get all the “spots and blemishes” out first. Jesus’ work on the cross already did that.

CHRISTIANITY BECOMES LIKE ALL THE OTHER RELIGIONS OF THE WORLD

I used to think the “bride of Christ” doctrine was a secondary issue in Christianity but with further consideration I’ve found it is not. It is a primary issue. What it teaches causes us to find ourselves doing works to become “without spot or wrinkle”. Our Christianity becomes just like all the rest of the religions of the world. It becomes a religion of works and not one founded in God’s grace. The “Bride of Christ” teaching takes away from us God’s grace and gift of righteousness. We then become all about works. The Galations were all about works. What did Paul call those Galations? He called them fools.

ANOTHER PROBLEM THAT COULD BE IN THIS DOCTRINE

In addition to quashing the gift of righteousness by the “Bride of Christ’ doctrine, it seems to me that our authority and position in Christ is effected as well. Being in his body is much more powerful than the position and authority we might have as a bride.

For example, when it comes right down to it, my wife is limited in her authority. I can delegate my authority to her but she can never have my total authority. It’s not that way with the body of Christ. He gave us all of His authority as kings and priests in the earth. We are his body. We have His authority in the earth. That authority is the Word of God He gave us to hear, believe, speak and live by in order to do what the first Adam didn’t. That is to subdue the earth and replenish it. We get the earth back from satan.

DON’T BELIEVE ANYTHING YOU HEAR (INCLUDING WHAT I WRITE) UNLESS IT CAN BE CLEARLY BACKED UP BY THE WORD

I can clearly backup, with scripture, the fact that the Lamb’s wife is the holy city of Jerusalem. But the ones who believe the church is the bride of Christ cannot back it up with obvious scripture.

RECONSIDERING DOCTRINE

Its good to question everything we are being taught. I have always been puzzled by this teaching. The word says in heaven we don’t marry. “But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage:” Luke 20:35. I don’t think this verse has much to do with the “bride of Christ” doctrine yet, on second thought, maybe it does. Since there is no limiting language in this scripture. If Luke 10:35 says we won’t be given in marriage then can it even be possible to be married to Jesus or anyone else for that matter, in the hereafter? Anyway, that scripture is what started me questioning all this.

BRIDE OF CHRIST ORIGINS

The term “Bride of Christ” has it roots in the Roman Catholic Church. You probably know the clergy or priests of the Roman Catholic Church “marries” their church, taking a oath to celebacy. As a result, the term “Bride of Christ” was eventually coined in relation to this practice. Today, this concept and terminology has spilled over into our own fundamental Christian doctrines.

THE PLAY “THE BRIDE”

Several years ago (early 90′s) there was a play called “The Bride”. This play told a story of how the church is the “bride of Christ”. This play was performed in many cities in the US. It was a nice little drama but it is unscriptural. In spite of that, the body of Christ, once again went for it and made it a doctrinal pillar.

IT SOUNDS GOOD

All this sounded good so somehow this doctrine got into what is being preached today. Just because the doctrine sounds good doesn’t mean its God. Don’t believe a thing just because at first glace it makes sense. If its not clearly in the word, its not so.

JESUS AND PAUL NEVER PREACHED THE “BRIDE OF CHRIST”

Jesus and Paul never preached or taught a “bride of Christ” doctrine. That alone is enough reason to not accept this doctrine.

It especially raises questions in my mind about it since Jesus, doesn’t teach on the “Bride of Christ” doctrine. Neither does Paul, Timothy or Peter or any of the early church brothers.

OUR RELATIONSHIP TO GOD IS A COVENANT RELATIONSHIP

I don’t believe we should throw out notion that we have a similar relationship to God as a husband would have to his wife in covenant only. That is, in light of the promises and covenants we make with our spouse in marriage. Those are similar to the ones Jesus makes to us in the promises of the New Covenant.

THE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE WITH GOD

In the concept of “intimacy” with God in a personal relationship with Him, it is like that of a son to his dad. We are also called a friend of God. We became the sons of God when Jesus laid down His life for us. Now we call God “dad”.

I SEARCHED THE BIBLE FOR “BRIDE OF CHRIST”

As I was finding out for myself what the word really says about this, I looked up the following terminologies in concordances; “bride of Christ”, “the bride”, “bride”, and “wife”. I read every reference to these as well as looked up what the original Hebrew/Greek meanings of these words are and here’s what I discovered.

First of all I found tons of verses in the word saying we are the body of Christ and the church, but on the other hand, there are only a handful about any bride relationship God might have to us and those don’t come out and plainly state we are the “bride of Christ”. I was really surprised that I didn’t find in any reference where it clearly stated the church or the body of Christ is the “bride of Christ”. In fact I couldn’t find the term “bride of Christ” in the Bible at all! I couldn’t find it anywhere! WOW! And after hearing all these years about the church being the “bride of Christ”!

INFERRENCES DON’T ESTABLISH TRUTH

This thing about us being “the “bride of Christ”" can only be inferred! Building doctrines on inferrences will mess us up and get us off the truth. This is the reason the Jones followers got off and drank the kool-aid. I don’t know about you but I’m not going with any doctrine that is inferred.

For example, It can be inferred that the baptism of the Holy Spirit was for the early church only and that God doesn’t operate that way today. For centuries the church, by and large, had been robbed of the comfort, revelation, ability and power found in the baptism of the Holy Spirit. I’m glad we don’t believe that’s true anymore.

Also consider that “the church” once believed women shouldn’t be in ministry or pastoring or in any leadership positions. That misconception came out inferences taken out of the word too. We don’t accept those two inferences as truth anymore yet we will accept inferences when it comes to the bride teaching. I find that an inconsistent approach to figuring out the truth in the word.

In interpreting the word, I take the word literally for what it says unless it specifically says otherwise. For instance, Jesus told many stories that had meanings and were similes. Before He told His stories, He always let the hearer know He was about to tell a parable before He told it.

THE FOLLY OF THE “BRIDE OF CHRIST” DOCTRINE

We have to think this through… If the church is Christ’s body, then we are part of Christ. That makes us the husband to the bride and not the bride. That is not possible. If Jesus is the head and the church is his body how can Jesus marry his own body? Thats crazy! Coming to think about it in these terms makes the “Bride of Christ” doctrine really stupid. Jesus isn’t going to marry his own body. He will marry his wife. The only thing he can marry will be the “Lamb’s Wife”. And that is the Holy Jerusalem.

THE SCRIPTURES THAT HAVE BEEN MISINTERPRETED

Now then, the following scriptures make only a relationship comparison but they don’t say we are the “bride of Christ”. Also notice the topic of discussion is about husbands and wives, not a bride. The topic is about a husband and a wife. Nothing here relates to Jesus as having the church as a bride. In fact it clearly says Jesus is the head of the church.

“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, AS unto the Lord”

“For the husband is the head of the wife, even AS Christ is the head of the church”(vs. 23).

“For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even AS the Lord the church” (vs. 29).

The apostle, by using a simile instead of a metaphor is desiring to show the resemblance between the marriage relationship and Christ and the Church. Paul points to the love relationship to demonstrate that “as Christ loved the Church,” husbands should love their wives. In like manner, wives are to emulate the Church by submitting to their own husbands. Nowhere in the portion under consideration does the apostle use the metaphor of a bride. In fact, just the opposite is true: “. . . and He is the Savior of the BODY” (vs. 23). “For we are members of His BODY, of His flesh, and of His bones” (vs. 30).

“For I am jealous over you with godly jealousy: for I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you AS a chaste virgin to Christ” (11 Cor. 11:2). This is a simile and not a metaphor. It does not say the church is the “bride of Christ”.

There are many other passages of scripture like these but I won’t go into them here.

“FINALLY BRETHEREN WHATSOVER THINGS ARE…TRUE”

Until it can be unquestionably proved that we, the body of Christ are “the “bride of Christ”, I don’t plan on building a message, doctrine, or ministry around it or writing any books about it. I’m going to continue walking in His grace and maintaining a righteousness consciousness. I’m playing it safe on this one and just referring to all of us as the “body of Christ”.